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KONTULA-O-Monogamy-Polygamy



Monogamy vs Polygamy

       Osmo Kontula 





Abstract:

The focus of this chapter is to evaluate how strong the tendency among Finns still is to form only one, lifelong relationship. We will also take a look at the number of sexual partners that those who enter relationships without being in love have had. In addition, we will discuss same-sex sexual experiences and analyze what unites those who have had numerous sexual relationships. Finally, we will summarize the practical significance of love in relationship formation.

 

KEY WORDS:  Sexuality, Sexual Health, Sex Research, Finland, Monogamy, Polygamy, Polyamory, Single

SexuS Journal ● Winter 2019 ● 4 (11): 959-978








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